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We are the haters of the internets. |
So what does it take to be great? And more importantly, can’t we all be
great? I think so. Fo’ sho’!
But how? If you’re a president,
according to Aaron David
Miller, you need to face some big ol’ crisis, wade through it in a way
that extracts some sort of positive change for the country, and then, after
some time goes by, you have to be embraced by your supporters and adversaries
alike. My current history crush, Teddy
Roosevelt even lamented not
having a crisis “worthy of his mettle” through which he could prove
himself.
Now this I can get behind!
It is so true that slogging through crises are what make us great. But it’s not just facing hard times that make
us great. We’ll all face hard
times. Some of us have larger giants to
slay than others, but they’re all giants.
And some of us have more to slay than others, but fighting any number of
giants is damn scary. The greatness in
our own lives comes from learning from those battles. And it can’t stop there because you can’t
learn without making a change. This is
where a lot of us fall short. I mean,
how many times have I faced some problem, often of my own making, only to face
the same kind of problem again (also of my own making). Did I learn something from the battle? Yes.
Did I learn it hard enough to make some sort of positive change? Ehhhhhnope.
Or, this is perhaps more common, we learn it enough to make a temporary change,
but then we slip right back to the same mistakes again. Not great.
So all we have to do is stop doing that.
Easy if you open your eyeballs!
While I still dig myself into holes sometimes, I’m getting better at noticing
when I’m picking up a shovel so I can put it down. I’m also getting better at climbing out
before they are too deep. It gets
easier, for all of us, once we start paying more attention.
Then there’s that last part, being appreciated for what you've done by supporters and adversaries alike.
At first, this might seem easy to reject. All you have to do is look at those
Cerberus-heads of all the haters to say, “Yeah, well there’s always going to be
someone to pull you down and detract from your achievements.” But if you really live up to your values and
your standards, the haters won’t have much to say. And the supporters will be there, happier
than ever to support.
Now this doesn't seem so bad.
Doable, in fact. Let’s do it,
friends. Let’s go out and be great. Maybe even the greatest.
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